It's not about being judged. That is unavoidable, and I'm totally cool with whatever people want to think about me as it doesn't really affect me either way. It's the tone of this thread that's bothersome. For one, you describe sex partners as a body count which is a very degrading way to look at sex, it would be different if you included your reasons for asking only women and calling it a 'body count' and included a thoughtful blurb for why you're asking. And then you only ask this to women like you want to put your judgements on how promiscuous women are, if you included everyone I definitely wouldn't in this thread offering my opinion. But this is just what i'm observing.